So the big weekend of cycling (for me anyway) is done and I don't think the girls even missed us. That's probably not strictly true, but we are moving to a stage whereby I know that they both have enough going on in their own lives not to dwell too much on us being away for a few days. We got home on Sunday afternoon hot, tired and looking forward to a big welcome. What we found was Di and Alby sitting quietly in the garden on their own with the kids round at our neighbours. When I went round to retreive them it was clear they had been there all day. It's not surprising really - it was a hot weekend and they had just taken the cover off their pool for the first time (swimming pool or grandparents - which would you choose at that age?!?). That coupled with the fact that Claire had baked cupcakes with them made for a perfect day. I came in to find them 'decorating' the efforts of their baking. This entailed a 'one spinkle ...