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Sometimes I write to record stories, mostly it's just everyday life. I want the girls to know just how special they are to us, just how much the little things add up to so much. I hope they will look back and appreciate all the things we did on a day to day basis to help them grow up strong, independent, happy, good people who give as well as take. I hope they appreciate us in time in the way I appreciate all Mum and Dad did for me.

I know we will go through times when they think we don't understand them, and no doubt there will be tears. On those days I can come and back and remember things like this letter, written by Abi before she went to sleep tonight. Maybe I can even use it as evidence that it wasn't always like this. If not I can use it to remind myself that it will pass and there will be love and laughter once more.

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